By Pascale Hansen

As a business owner, you are no stranger to navigating complex financial decisions and challenges. However, there is one insidious tactic that may be undermining your financial health without you even realizing it - financial gaslighting.

Financial gaslighting is a form of manipulation in which one party distorts or denies the truth about financial matters, leading the other party to question their own perceptions and decisions. This can manifest in various ways, such as downplaying the importance of financial concerns, withholding crucial information, or shifting blame for financial problems onto the victim.

Business owners are particularly vulnerable to financial gaslighting, as they often rely on financial advisors, partners, or colleagues for guidance and support in managing their finances. These trusted individuals may have their own agendas or biases that can cloud their judgment and lead them to engage in gaslighting behaviors.

Recognizing financial gaslighting is the first step in protecting yourself and your business from its harmful effects. Look out for warning signs such as:

Being made to feel guilty or ashamed for asking questions about financial matters

Being told that your concerns are unwarranted or exaggerated

Feeling confused or uncertain about your financial situation despite receiving advice from a trusted source

If you suspect that you are being gaslit, it is important to take action to address the issue. Start by seeking guidance from independent financial advisors or consultants who can provide an objective perspective on your financial situation. Keep detailed records of all financial transactions and conversations to ensure that you have a clear understanding of your finances.

Additionally, it may be helpful to confront the individual engaging in gaslighting behavior and assert your boundaries. Clearly communicate your expectations for transparency and honesty in all financial matters, and be prepared to walk away from any relationships or partnerships that are not conducive to your financial well-being.

By taking a proactive approach to combating financial gaslighting, you can safeguard your business against manipulation and deception. Remember, your financial health is too important to be compromised by dishonesty or deceit.

Pascale Hansen is the Founder, CEO, and Financial Strategist at Zada.

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